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Tom's December letter


 

 
After the mid-term elections in America many people feel slightly more optimistic that the problems in the Middle East (including the troubles in Palestine and the situation in Iraq) may take a different direction.  Hopefully some consensus between all the nations in the Middle East, including Syria and Iran and the western powers so heavily involved, will be obtained. 

It is against this turbulent background that Christians (themselves under threat either by indifference in the Western world or by actual hostility in the Muslim world) celebrate Advent and Christmas.  Advent when we look forward to the coming of Jesus.  Christmas when we celebrate the fact that God intervened in human history ‘when Julius Caesar was emperor of Tiberius’. 

God came in His Son Jesus to reveal the nature and extent of His love for the human race. The world is no longer a mindless and meaningless entity but the creation of a loving God who calls us to cooperate with Him ‘in drawing all things to Himself’. 

So at Advent and Christmas we are filled with this hope and respond with joy and carols to God’s saving love. 

What kind of Christmas?
At last there is a movement away from the consumerism of Christmas.  This is partly being driven by religious people but also by those who are concerned about consumerism and the damage we are doing to the planet.  An AXA insurance survey last Christmas found that 40% of those questioned admitted to agonising over their Christmas shopping.  One quarter relied on loans and credit cards.  In 2004 parents spent 1.8 billion on children’s presents.  Yet 87% thought that children should be taught more about the meaning of Christmas. 

A movement is gaining ground among those who long for a simpler alternative to the annual spending spree.  It started in Canada in 1992 with ‘Buy Nothing Day’ a campaign challenging people to spend 24 hours not visiting the shops.  This campaign has reached 63 countries including Britain and the date fixed for this year was 25th November!  Their philosophy is ‘a Christian lifestyle richer in meaning, smaller in impact upon the earth, and greater in giving to people less privileged.  It acknowledges that buying nothing at all may be impracticable, but urges that any purchases to be in accordance with principles such as buying locally, fair trade, environment-friendly packaging, recycling or reusing, and buying things that will last’. 

The main objective is to challenge over-consumption and its destructive effects.  Against the background of the recent publication of the Stern report this makes examination of the impact of our Christmas consumption of any kind worth evaluating and maybe amending. Anyway local spending and recycling can take place at the Advent Fair on December 2nd.

Advent & Christmas at St Mary's
There are a series of Advent Study Groups (see calendar for dates) on the subject of ‘Reflecting and Waiting’.  These will be led by Barbara Moreland and me.  The Advent Carol service will be on Advent Sunday December 3rd at 6-30pm.  On Advent Sunday morning I will be preaching on the subject of change. 

The children’s Nativity play will be performed on Sunday December 17th at the 9-30 service and again at the Christingle service on Christmas Eve at 5-00pm.  The service of 9 lessons and carols will be on Sunday 17th December at 6-30pm and parish carol singing will be on Wednesday 20th December.  We will meet on the corner of Daybrook Road with Dorset road at 7-00pm.   Karl and I will be leading the singing so I hope many of you will join us in raising money for the homeless charity ‘Crisis’. 

Please note the change of service times on Christmas Eve.  There will be no 8.00am service and the morning Eucharist will be at 10.00am.  On Christmas day itself it has been decided to combine the 9-30am service with the 11-30am service and there will be one service an All Age Family Christmas Eucharist at 10.00am. 

I hope this will give you and all your friends and families ample opportunities to celebrate the true joy of Christmas. 

Jan joins with me in wishing you all a joyful and peaceful Christmas. 

Your priest and friend

 Tom Leary 

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