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St. Mildred


 


There was once a princess call Mildred who lived just over 300 years ago in Shropshire with her father King Merewald and her mother Queen Erinenburga. One day her cousin, Egbert, let his friend, Theinor, kill the Queen's two little brothers so they wouldn't be kings when they grew up, and he might be. Afterwards Egbert was sorry and confessed to the Archbishop of Canterbury , who said that he must do whatever Queen Erinenburga said.

The Queen, and Mildred, visited him, and told him to build an abbey on land in his kingdom, on the Isle of ThaIlet, where the nuns could pray for his soul, and Mildred would be the Abbess. She was sent to be educated at a convent at Chelles near Paris while the building work was done, and eventually she made the journey home with her friend Dorothy. They sailed across the Channel from Belgium to Ebbsfleet (where St.Augustine is said to have landed in 597) where her mother, the Queen, came to meet her. Mildred was so excited that she couldn't wait for the boat to land, and jumped off onto the rocks and ran to her mother. The rock that she jumped on is still called St. Mildred's rock!

Mildred became Abbess at Minster-in- Thanet and was well known for her calm nature and her generosity to the poor , especially to widows and children. Once she went to a meeting of Bishops, Abbots and Abbesses at Bapchild near Sittingbourne to discuss the state of Christianity in Kent, and on her way home by boat, along the north coast of Kent the strong wind kept her from landing where she wanted to. Eventually she managed to steer the boat towards a bay near Westgate, but the wind blew her boat onto the rocks, and she was tipped into the sea. Mildred swam to the shore and was safe, and ever since the place has been called St. Mildred's Bay. Perhaps you have been there. If you look on a map of the Isle of Thanet, you will see marked at Minster, “Abbey, rems (remains) of”, this is where St. Mildred lived, worked and prayed.

After her death, many people made a pilgrimage to her tomb. Her name means 'mild power' and her special Feast Day is on July 13th.  

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