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Diocese of Southwark, Church of England

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John Hayward's letter
 


 

 During my first five weeks in office, I have been meeting hundreds of local people, in Church, out with the dog, generally around the parish, in the vicarage study, during meetings and at morning, afternoon and evening 'get-to-know' gatherings, kindly hosted by members of St Mary's congregation. Please forgive me if I haven't remembered as many of your names as you might like - faces and associations tend to register first. As expected, there are many people to get to know and a breadth of interest and activities throughout the parish and involving people of all ages. Perfectly healthily, groups will of course want to gather according to their respective activities which may prescribe an age group while other activities, like the Parish Players and the Summer Fair embrace a wide range of ages and provide a focus for the whole community. I am looking forward to the Fair on Saturday June 14th and to seeing the Church host on the glebe a day which gathers the local community in good numbers and hearty spirit. Please do offer your support to Alan Hay who is co-ordinating the event to whom we owe a debt of gratitude.

While the Fair is properly a day for us all here in Merton to gather and enjoy, during the last month many have been busy collecting for others as with the Save the Children Fund 10th Anniversary Party, Christian Aid Street Collection and the Benefit Concert for Burma (yet to happen as I write). I commend that balance of approach and am equally pleased that my discussions with people of mature years in the Mothers' Union and young people in the Uniformed Organisations and Sunday Club and Crèche are all in their ways seeking to rejuvenate their activities and links to the Church. The Mothers' Union ( also actively involved with Scallywags) welcomes newcomers of all ages and is planning an enrolment of new members on Thursday 3rd July at 10.30am; I will be progressing discussions with the uniformed organisations to discern how St Mary's can better engage with them; a meeting with the Sunday Club and Crèche Teachers has begun to articulate how we can better embrace children at St Mary's in a way which meets their spiritual needs and I am all too aware that provision for teenagers must also be addressed.

The Choir, whose singing we regularly appreciate, is preparing to sing in Hamburg this weekend and I am looking forward to hearing the occasional singers as they reconvene to keep music at the heart of our Sunday morning and evening worship when the Choir is away.
We are fortunate in Merton Park to enjoy, in so many respects, much talent, devotion, commitment, numbers, organisation and service. While the constituent parts of that are impressive, I am sure that the 'whole is far greater than the sum of those constituent parts' so we must ever be vigilant to find cohesion of these constituent parts in generous and creative ways so that just as with any choir singing in harmony, no one voice booms out but all combine to agreeable effect. As one hymn writer has it:

'Yea, we know that thou rejoicest
o'er each work of thine;
thou didst ears and hands and voices
for thy praise design;
craftsman's art and music's measure,
for thy pleasure
all combine.'

John Hayward

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