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Diocese of Southwark, Church of England

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Did Talking Points make an impact?
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Krysia Williams
 


 

The Church Hall not available for a week…..regular users inconvenienced…..casual bookers turned away…. 

Even as the Hall Bookings Secretary I saw in advance that Talking Points was having an impact. Was it worth the effort? Did it raise the profile of St Mary’s? Were those who attended stimulated, informed, perhaps even disturbed? Did it attract people outside the St Mary’s congregation to join in dialogue with us and see that Christianity continues to be relevant? Did the speakers feel it was worth their while to brave crossing the river, to persevere with the traffic jams in the Elephant & Castle, to penetrate the depths of Merton Park? Did the regular St Mary’s congregation feel refreshed by having five nationally known speakers on the doorstep addressing difficult issues?

 For those who weren’t there:
Talking Points was five consecutive evenings where a guest speaker addressed a broad issue; the audience was seated at tables; after the speaker had concluded, the audience discussed the issues and submitted questions; and the speaker addressed the questions for about an hour. Each evening had a chairperson and those attending were refreshed by tea or coffee and excellent biscuits.

 The topics:

  • Multi faith society: Tom Butler, Bishop of Southwark

  • Faith and science: Richard Cheetham, Bishop of Kingston

  • Faith and education: John Hall, Chief Education Officer for the Church of England

  • Faith and relationships: Sue Burridge, Family Policy Advisor to the Church of England

  • Faith and politics: Simon Hughes,MP

 Talking Points must, in my view, be accounted a success. The hall sold out on three nights, with latecomers being squeezed in, and there were near capacity attendances on the other two. Several of the speakers were inspirational; an astonishing range of questions was asked, with the Bishop of Kingston in particular attracting such questions as: 

  • Why did God send Christ to our planet?

  • Is a godless theory of life more elegant?

  • Can you doubt the resurrection and still be a Christian?

  • Bishop, how do you visualise God and Heaven?

 And Tom Leary was much commended by people for his contributions, as chairman, to the session on relationships. A number of people were clearly unaware of his expertise in this area.  

Perhaps the most extraordinary evening was the last. Simon Hughes got badly stuck in traffic. But the capacity audience waited patiently (for a politician!). When he arrived, he gave the most open, revealing, affirming address about what faith meant to him. He said that his passions were his faith, politics and sport – in that order. He talked about certain Christian colleagues of his in Parliament as ”friends I would die for”. He was the very opposite of the picture most of us have of politicians. 

This success was mirrored by the enthusiasm and response of the audiences. There were many newcomers to St Mary’s; there were people who were so inspired by one evening that they organised baby sitters so that they could come again – and bring their husbands; there were teachers; there were schoolchildren and students; there were people of other faiths, and people from neighbouring churches; and there were many well known St Mary’s faces. At the end there were congratulations all round to those who had organised the week long event, and a great sense of satisfaction from all concerned.   

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